Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief by Joanna Cacciatore

When a loved one dies, the pain of loss can feel unbearable – especially in the case of a traumatizing death that leaves us shouting, “NO!” with every fibre of our body. The process of grieving can feel wild and nonlinear – and often lasts for much longer than other people, the non-bereaved, tell us it should

Organized into fifty-two short chapters, Bearing the Unbearable is a companion for life’s most difficult times, revealing how grief can open our hearts to connection, compassion, and the very essence of our shared humanity. Dr. Joanne Cacciatore—bereavement educator, researcher, Zen priest, and leading counsellor in the field—accompanies us along the heartbreaking path of love, loss, and grief. Through moving stories of her encounters with grief over decades of supporting individuals, families, and communities—as well as her own experience with loss—Cacciatore opens a space to process, integrate, and deeply honour our grief.

Not just for the bereaved, Bearing the Unbearable will be required reading for grief counselors, therapists and social workers, clergy of all varieties, educators, academics, and medical professionals. Organized into fifty-two accessible and stand-alone chapters, this book is also perfect for being read aloud in support groups.

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